Just when I thought life could be any worse, it took such a nose dive it shook me to my core.

It was Thursday, the day of my urology appointment. When I was wheeled into his office in a wheel chair, he was shocked and his face said it all.

“You were only here a few weeks ago, and you walked into my office. What has happened?”

I knew something was wrong when he said he couldn’t find any life or reflexes in my legs. As he examined me, his face grew more serious.

As I sat there, trying not to cry with desperation, he picked up the phone and rang another department. Over the next few hours, I was prodded and poked, and tests were done. Finally, I was admitted to the Orthopaedic department. I ended up having an MRI, which revealed a seriously squashed nerve in my spine. They decided that surgery was out of the question, very dangerous at my age, and the recovery would take too long.

What I needed to do was doable. Plenty of physiotherapy and a new prescription, one designed to numb the suffering nerve.

So this is all down to me. I must exercise like never before, every day and pray that new pill works…


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29 responses to “More about the beginning…”

  1. You can do this, Jaye. If there is any way we can help, even if it’s just as a sympathetic ear, we’re here for you. Perhaps documenting your progress will give you a boost of confidence. Go girl!

    1. I like to share my troubles, and my progress, Meeks. And all your messages of encouragement help so much. At the moment I’m playing a waiting game, following orders (and exercises) until the pain eases. I am told that it will soon, and they had better be right!

      1. -hugs- they will be. Stay strong.

        1. That’s the plan… 💖

  2. You go this, Jaye! AND you are so not alone…. there are so many of us who are lifting you and believing in YOU!!! <3

    1. Thank you Annette, I am now crying with gratitude… 💖💖


  3. Physio can do wonders to ‘loosen’ up around the squished bit.

    1. and its down to me to make sure I do them all. I have charts of all the exercises and determined to do them well… 😀🤞

  4. Take the new pill do whatever exercises they prescribe and make sure to give yourself lots of ‘brainfood’. — lots of fluids and plenty of fresh air….and a film that makes you laugh. How about The Young Sheldon….it’s certainly amusing me. xx

    1. We love that series, and it is very funny. I will do anything to make this pain go away, Janet… 💖

      1. I have enjoyed the series about the Young Sheldon…all the characters are perfect…..xx

        1. and hilarious. Everyone should have a family like that…

          1. I agree:)x

  5. Well, they can do miracles these days, so let’s just hope this will be one of them- and it will come about easier than you think.

    1. I have my orders, Violet and I will follow them to the letter. I believe in miracles so have my fingers crossed! 💖

  6. I am so sorry, Jaye. Life can sure throw us some curve balls, can’t it? I say when that curve ball comes soaring toward us we have two options: Either dodge it or knock it out of the park. Either way is good. Praying for some relief for you!

    1. Thank you Jan. I think I should have knocked this one for six, but will do all I can to get rid or it. Your prayers will help, so thankyou… 💖

  7. my mom is 86. We had a similar problem and she has come right with nerve numbing medication and physiotherapy. Praying for you.

    1. So glad to hear your mum made it through and is now alright. I shall be too in no time, I hope… 💖

    2. I’m sorry your Mum had to go through that, Robbie, but it’s great news that she’s come through it. -hugs-

      1. Thanks, Meeks 💛

        1. -hugs-

  8. Sorry to read this, Jaye. I hope exercise and medication work for you.

    1. I hope so too, Stevie. I will do my best anyway… 💖


  9. So sorry to hear Jaye.. and I hope the treatment brings some improvement, you are a warrior and never forget it… ♥♥

    1. My warriorship is being sorely tested, but I think she is still there, on the sidelines… 💖💖

  10. We’ll pray along with you, Jaye.

    1. Thanks John, that is appreciated…

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