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Christmas Eve is always a busy day in our house, although these days, it is a very different kind of busy.
I have fond memories of the good old days when our family came to our house for Christmas dinner. In the beginning, it was comfortable, but as the family grew over the years, it really took some organising.
The cooking was never a problem, as I can cope with almost anything in the kitchen, big or small. Fitting everyone around the table proved hilarious at times. We never had enough chairs, so there was always one person perched on something precarious.
These days our house is too small (and we are getting too old.) We don’t have anywhere near enough chairs or even a big enough table, so we have been succeeded by a granddaughter, one with a large house and a fantastic cook for a husband.
When this arrangement started, it was a strange novelty, eating a meal that I had not cooked, and I didn’t expect to like it, but I did, and now, I always look forward to having the day off.
We wanted Christmas to be special this year but could not have foreseen what 2022 had in store for all of us. Would the ghost of this dying year spoil the holiday?
It feels right for the first time ever that the year is slowly dying, slipping away unnoticed among all the chaos and misery.
We feel the same way as the ghost of Christmas present hovers in the doorway like an unwelcome guest, unsure as we all are as to what will happen next.
2023 is just a few days away, a brand-new year.
A year we are beginning to think will be the same as the last.
But does it have to be?
I woke up this morning with the overwhelming desire to send all the misery, worry and complacency packing along with this dreadful year.
To rekindle the spark that will make us all feel alive again.
At first, we will probably have to ‘Fake it until we make it,’ and push the envelope like crazy until life feels better.
We wish all of our friends and followers a Wonderful New Year, a year full of promise and possibilities, and in a few days, we will be sending out the first of our 2023 newsletters, looking forward and planning a much better year…
Your lovely post echos my thoughts. Here’s to the new year ahead.
I really hope 2023 will be better…
Me, too.
Here’s hoping 2023 will be an improvement on 2022. (It wouldn’t be hard!)
We are feeling a little optimistic, Audrey…
Wishing you both a safe journey into and through 2023🙏
Thanks, but sometimes I wish for something more than safety…
I know, me too.
It says much about the times.
On a side note, where I live in Wrexham NE Wales a common parting phrase between men is ‘Take care’ (It’s a tough town. History steeped in coal and steel…long gone but folk memories are powerful things)
I like that…
I miss the big family gatherings as well. Just 4 around the table just doesn’t feel right. But no one lives in the same country anymore. Oh well. It was nice to eat dinner in the 22C sunshine. Wishing you a fabulous 2023!!
Although there are times when I wish my family lived further away, I wouldn’t change them for anything!