We’re all human. We all have good days and terrible days. We’re all just trying to make the best out of our lives. I am constantly reminding myself of this reality for one simple reason. It’s the only fact that I can hold onto instead of making blind assumptions about others.

When other people’s actions rub me the wrong way, or there is some misunderstanding between us, remembering this allows me to pause. During this pause, I remind myself that I’m only in control of my own actions. Then I try my very best to do or say what’s best for my inner peace. I’m not saying you should become a doormat for anyone, in fact just the opposite. Take control of yourself and never surrender that control to a situation. Sometimes uncomfortable conversations have to happen, but you can have them in a constructive manner.

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