Hiding the Cracks… #Kintsugi

After seeing the doctor yesterday, I am feeling so much better about many of my problems.

I had reservations about the appointment as it was to see a doctor I had not seen before, and I already felt a bit passed on if you know what I mean. There is not much continuation anywhere these days.

I recognised him immediately. He had retired years ago but hated retirement, and was back to dip his toes into the water. He was a brilliant doctor, kind, considerate and knowledgeable. I hoped he hadn’t changed.

He must have studied my case history before I arrived, as he didn’t have to glance at the computer screen at all. We talked, really talked, about all my health problems, making me feel cared for for the first time in ages. He agreed with some of my treatment, but not with others. The cardiologist, for example, was wrong to say I shouldn’t be feeling ill and breathless. He shouldn’t have stated that my advancing years would have a bearing on my treatment either. I am, however, expecting an appointment for a stress test to find out what my heart is up to, and he was pleased to hear that.

My waterworks have always been a problem, and nothing has ever helped. This time he did refer to the computer screen, as he had compiled a list of all the meds I had ever had over the years, including the results. He prescribed a totally new (for me) medication that he thought would help with my annoying on-going earache too.

The pain in my back is due to my kidney problem, so I am to get my blood checked.

My asthma seems to be under better control now, and my lungs are clear. All things considered, I feel as though I have just had a very thorough medical…

Considering I am a carer for my sister, Anita seems fitter than I do at the moment.

Her heart condition is under control and responding well to the medications. She has developed diabetes and has added to her long list of medications. We now share carer duties and the increasing family problems, and life is beginning to look better than it has in ages.

We are both like those lovely kintsugi bowls. Broken, yet lovingly repaired with precious care…

We would both like to thank all of you for your kind messages and support,

know that it means so much to us… XXX


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  1. Widdershins Avatar

    YAAAAY!!! Congratulations on scoring a human being for a doctor! :D

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  2. Susi Bocks Avatar

    May your medical conditions continue to improve with this caring doctor!

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    1. Jaye Marie and Anita Dawes Avatar

      Unfortunately, this could be a one off, as he is semi retired… a great shame if he doesn’t stay… 🩺🕊

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      1. Susi Bocks Avatar

        I’ll keep my fingers crossed!

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  3. John W. Howell Avatar

    Good news, Jaye. A caring doc is a vital thing.

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    1. Jaye Marie and Anita Dawes Avatar

      We need more of them, John… 🙏🏻🩺

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  4. Jan Sikes Avatar

    So glad you had a favorable visit with the doctor, and I love the reference to the Kintsugi bowls. Hang in there! Hugs!

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  5. D. Wallace Peach Avatar

    Yes, you are both Kintsugi bowls. I love the symbolism of that form of art and they’re beautiful, as are you both. I’m glad things are headed in the right direction and you’re getting some kind and knowledgeable support. <3 <3

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    1. Jaye Marie and Anita Dawes Avatar

      Thanks for those wonderful comments, Diana XXX

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  6. OIKOS™- Art, Books & more Avatar

    Congratulations, Anita! This sounds like a wonderful appointment with best results. Only doctors with empathy and long term experiences are able to give best diagnoses. You found the best again. Now you can calm down, and do a wonderful Sunday walk tomorrow. Best wishes, Michael

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  7. Chel Owens Avatar

    This makes me want to see that doctor. I hope the tests and meds-adjustment improve things for you.

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    1. Jaye Marie and Anita Dawes Avatar

      Just being listened to and understood was priceless, Chel…

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  8. Goff James Avatar

    Sounds like a great doctor. Great positive feedback. So pleased for you My Friend. Take care of yourselves and stay safe. Happy Saturday.

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      1. Goff James Avatar

        Cheers. Happy Restful Day My Friends.

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  9. Penny Wilson Writes Avatar

    It sounds like your doctor is very knowledgeable and compassionate. A rare combination these days! Sending love and light. <3

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    1. Jaye Marie and Anita Dawes Avatar

      Thank you so much, Penny… means a lot!

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  10. Annette Rochelle Aben Avatar

    May love carry you through to more reasons to love your lives! <3

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    1. Jaye Marie and Anita Dawes Avatar

      Thank you, Annette… so kind…

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  11. Darlene Avatar

    Finding a doctor who genuinely cares is so important. I remember that with mom. They can’t fix everything but if they can make you feel better by caring, that can make a huge difference. Wishing you both all the best. xo

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    1. Jaye Marie and Anita Dawes Avatar

      That doctor is worth his weight in gold, so rare these days…

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