Embracing Tolerance: A Journey of Acceptance

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Tolerance is a funny old word, one you rarely encounter, which is strange when you consider that we all practice it every day.

When you practice tolerance, you accept another’s ideas and beliefs. If you respect someone’s opinions — even if you disagree or find them nonsensical — you display tolerance.

The noun tolerance, which stems from the Latin for “endurance,” also refers to an organism’s ability to stand or handle a difficult environmental condition. If you build up a tolerance, you can handle large amounts of something (from medicine to psychological abuse) without being too strongly affected. We usually use the word to refer to our need to accept others, as suggested by John F. Kennedy when he said, “Tolerance implies no lack of commitment to one’s own beliefs. Rather it condemns the oppression or persecution of others.”

“Tolerance is the quality of allowing other people to say and do as they like, even if you do not agree or approve of it.”

“Tolerance is the ability to bear something painful or unpleasant.”

I only realised the other day that I must be exceedingly good at this tolerance thing…

Most of my many ailments have been double-checked by my doctor this year, with the same outcome for all of them. Almost everything inside me is old and slowly failing.

I was annoyed at the emphasis on the old aspect, for I don’t feel old despite everything. But I had to accept it for what it was, something to be expected at my age.

Up until recently, that is.

I thought that, hopefully, I would continue to age, so how much longer might I have? An interesting thought, right?

I am not particularly worried about my longevity. With my medical history, I didn’t expect to get to 80. So, any more will be the icing on the cake. Just don’t leave me helpless, as that I couldn’t bear.

Living is a bit like playing the lottery. You choose your numbers or have the machine select them for you, then sit back and wait to see if any of them win…

But they will probably have to beat me with a big stick to get me to shuffle off this planet, as I’m not going anywhere…

How’s that for tolerance?

works for the cold too!


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  1. dgkaye Avatar

    Good for you Jaye! I’m not so good with tolerance. I seemed to have lost that when I lost my husband. I will not stand and listen to someone’s BS or nonsense, I remove myself from the situation. :) x

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    1. Jaye Marie and Anita Dawes Avatar

      Would that we could all walk away from difficult situations, Debby. I am a carer, so unable to escape!

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      1. dgkaye Avatar

        Oh I get it. I’m not saying I walk from difficulties, just from people or conversations.

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        1. Jaye Marie and Anita Dawes Avatar

          I only have one difficult situation, Debby. Just one annoying and impossible person that I cannot walk away from.

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          1. dgkaye Avatar

            That must be very difficult.

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            1. Jaye Marie and Anita Dawes Avatar

              There are good days, Debby…

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  2. Jennie Avatar

    I’m with you and feel the same way.

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  3. Widdershins Avatar

    IF, and it’s a big ‘if’, I have to go I’m kicking and screaming all the way! :D

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    1. Jaye Marie and Anita Dawes Avatar

      me too, Widds, although I often wonder why we bother… ( I am not my usual happy self today, so ignore me)

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  4. D.L. Finn, Author Avatar

    Tolerance is so needed now. An acceptance for difference and not insisting everything be the same. I’m always surprised I’m still here but don’t want to leave this world either. Have too much reading and writing to do!

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    1. Jaye Marie and Anita Dawes Avatar

      Exactly… I’m not sure if you can refuse to go, but I definitely will!

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  5. Author Jan Sikes Avatar

    Tolerance is a great word, Jaye. And I’m with you. Even though I am not yet to 80, I am past 70 and have no intention of leaving anytime soon. Hugs!

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    1. Jaye Marie and Anita Dawes Avatar

      I am a great believer in determination, and if you have enough of it, we can do anything… 💖

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  6. Munaeem Jamal Avatar

    Tolerance helps people with different backgrounds and beliefs get along and understand each other.

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    1. Jaye Marie and Anita Dawes Avatar

      Tolerance is in short supply right now, Munaeem, I wish there was more of it in the world…

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