The Waiting Game…

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The Waiting Game…

I thought that posting about our difficulties would help my perspective, and it did, up to a point.

My mind is still hunting for a way to do everything, even though you and I know this is impossible. Not without a lot of tweaks, anyway.

I read another post yesterday about the importance of taking a break from our writing. I am sure you have all read posts like this, too. That it can trigger new surges of brilliance and productivity. I wanted to see if this method can work for all our other troubles too.

All we have to do to achieve this miracle is to put them in a mental holding box and walk away.

Years ago, I would have waded in and tried to bulldoze my way to a solution, but this particular problem involves more than just me, so I am letting it stew for a while, hoping it melts away like spring snow. I seriously hope it does, for I have run out of patience!

I have done this many times with various problems, and I know that removing the thing with the blockage, even for a little while, does, in some peculiar way, help the flow to resume.

This method also works for those hard-to-resolve situations, so I am betting that it might work on anything once you have isolated the problem.

Of course, and from experience, I know that once you have walked away from anything, there is always the fear that you won’t return, which is probably why most of us are reluctant to risk it.

I have ignored this particular problem long enough; it is probably time to do something constructive.

Most important is my health. So busy making sure my sister’s health is being carefully managed I have been neglecting my own needs. I hope that recent tests will answer many questions, and hopefully, I can get the good part of me back.

So, while all this is in the pipeline, I have been taking a few days off. My brain will continue to look for answers, even while I sort the garden out.


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  1. dgkaye Avatar

    Take the break, and take in your garden. <3

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    1. Jaye Marie and Anita Dawes Avatar

      even with the arthritis, I am better off in the garden, Debby… 💖🙏

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      1. dgkaye Avatar

        And the sunshine makes it all better. :) x

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        1. Jaye Marie and Anita Dawes Avatar

          I have noticed that as I grow older, just being out of doors is magical, Debby…

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  2. V.M.Sang Avatar

    Gardening, as many of your commentors have said, is very good for letting go. And the mind does great things when relaxed.
    I hope the tests bring good results.

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    1. Jaye Marie and Anita Dawes Avatar

      The results were disappointing, Vivienne… according to them, I am in perfect health for an eighty year old with a failing kidney… sigh…

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  3. Stevie Turner Avatar

    Yes, do take a break. I take a break every summer, and it does help.

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    1. Jaye Marie and Anita Dawes Avatar

      I used to pride myself that I could manage and do everything. Those days have now gone. I never thought it would happen, but I am happy to cut back a little…

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  4. acflory Avatar

    Gardening is a great way to let the brain ‘let go’ for a while. I find it very Zen. :)

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    1. Jaye Marie and Anita Dawes Avatar

      It helps that there is a lot to do out there, too Meeks…

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  5. John W. Howell Avatar

    I can’t add much to your good advice to yourself. Hope the tests give you the information you are looking for.

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    1. Jaye Marie and Anita Dawes Avatar

      Thanks John… I hope so too…

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  6. Goff James Avatar

    Time to pause a while and take a step back My Friend. It makes sense and provides a fresh perspective to enable one to move slowly forwards. Take good care of yourself. Stay Positive. Stay Smiling.

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    1. Jaye Marie and Anita Dawes Avatar

      It is getting harder to keep smiling, Goff… but I refuse to give in, even if I must slow down…

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      1. Goff James Avatar

        “It always seems impossible until it is done.” Nelson Mandela

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  7. Jennie Avatar

    Time off to think things through is good. Writing about it is good, too. You have many listeners/readers.

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    1. Jaye Marie and Anita Dawes Avatar

      Thanks Jennie… it is good to share, although I would prefer to share the good times…

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  8. Audrey Driscoll Avatar

    Gardens demand attention but can also bring healing. I hope you find some solutions.

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    1. Jaye Marie and Anita Dawes Avatar

      Thank you so much, Audrey. I might stay out there until I do!

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