Friendships…

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Many years ago, I often wished I had someone I could talk to, someone who wouldn’t judge me or criticise my ideas.

I was an only child, and we constantly moved from place to place. I didn’t make friends easily; even when I thought I found one, we were off and moving again.

I used to study the people I saw every day, wondering what their lives were like. Sometimes, I invented new lives for them. This was probably the beginning of my becoming a storyteller.

Even as an adult, friends didn’t flock to my side. My life hurtled from one sad situation to another, and having someone to talk to would have been wonderful.

When I started writing and blogging, I knew I would have to communicate with people. I initially didn’t find it easy, and I felt like a lonely child in the playground again. I didn’t know how to talk to people. I tried, but finding the right words was difficult, and when I thought I had, they sounded wrong.

I had always found talking to people difficult, but how would I cope with global communication? It wasn’t until I gradually got to know these people that I could join in conversations and even start some of my own.

Since joining WordPress, I have really come out of my shell. I love the part of my day when I can talk to our visitors, sharing their lives, hopes, and dreams.

People tell me, “But they’re not real people, it’s the internet…”

But they couldn’t be more wrong,

I can share the lives of lovely people worldwide, and they share mine. From having very few friends, I now have hundreds, and I hope I never get too old to be a blogger; my life would be meaningless…


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  1. Susi Bocks Avatar

    I’ve found some of my best friends online!

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      1. Susi Bocks Avatar

        :) I’m happy for you!

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  2. Tracy TzGarden.blogspot.com Avatar

    Friends are friends, no matter where

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  3.  Avatar

    Believe me, sometimes it’s not wrong beeing a only child. ;-) Happy Valentine’s to you as well. Enjoy the day! Best wishes, Michael

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    1. Jaye Marie and Anita Dawes Avatar

      It’s not wrong, but it can be lonely, Michael…

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  4. Jacquie Biggar Avatar

    In a way, blogging relationships are deeper and more poignant than face-to-face. Here, we leave parts of ourselves out there that would probably stay hidden in ‘normal’ conversations. It takes a certain amount of bravery to put your feelings on the page for others to see. {{hugs}}

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  5. John W. Howell Avatar

    A big hug to you, Jaye. Lovely post an I feel the same about blogging,

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    1. Jaye Marie and Anita Dawes Avatar

      One of the best things I have ever done, John. Thanks for the hug!

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  6. Audrey Driscoll Avatar

    If not for blogging, I would be a hermit. And if someone had told me 14 years ago that I would regularly communicate with people all over the world, I wouldn’t have believed it.

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    1. Jaye Marie and Anita Dawes Avatar

      neither would I, Audrey… and I don’t mind skimping on the housework to do it!

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  7. D.L. Finn, Author Avatar

    As a fellow only child, i feel the same way.

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    1. Jaye Marie and Anita Dawes Avatar

      becoming a blogger was the best thing I ever did!

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  8. Goff James Avatar

    Happy Sharing Live’s Day My Friend. “Nothing makes the earth seem so spacious as to have friends at a distance; they make the latitudes and longitudes.” (Henry David Thoreau)

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      1. Goff James Avatar

        Have a wonderful day My Friends.

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  9. Teagan Riordain Geneviene Avatar

    This is a beautiful post. Yes, I am real (although I sometimes wonder about that myself!). Internet friends seem to be more substantial than most of the people we know in person. Big hugs.

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    1. Jaye Marie and Anita Dawes Avatar

      Thanks for the hugs, Teagan… and good to know you! 💖

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  10. Darlene Avatar

    I love the friends I have made from blogging. And they are definitely real people. xo

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