Jaye’s Week (Not the Best I’m afraid!)

The week hasn’t started yet, and I’m already worrying enough for six people.

You see, because I haven’t been posting about my sister’s health lately, most of you probably think she is doing well. The truth is somewhat sadder, I’m afraid.

Although Anita really did appreciate everyone’s good wishes last year, she said she needed to move on and concentrate on getting better, so asked me to stop the updates. The loss of her health has come as a shock to all of us, including Anita as she has always been the healthiest member of our family. We have since discovered that although she is the head of the family, always first with help and advice when we all need it, she is the worst patient in the world and exceedingly difficult to take care of!

Despite her will power, (and most of mine!) there are still days when she struggles to breathe and has very little strength. Her quality of life drags on the floor and some days we fear for the worst. We are constantly being assured that the pacemaker thingy is doing its job, but at the same time, they admit to the setting being very low to avoid straining her severely damaged heart.

Eventually, our concerns filtered through to the consultant, who rang our house and spoke to Anita at length, resulting in appointments for several tests this week. An Echocardiogram and an Angiogram, blood tests etc. A stent was mentioned, too, so all being well, we may eventually have good news.

In the meantime, though, I am having trouble concentrating on anything, but desperate to keep busy…


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  1. joylennick Avatar

    So, so sorry to hear about your sister’s continued heart problems. Let’s hope they sort them out soonest. She is in my most positive thoughts. Hugs xx

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    1. Books & Bonsai Avatar

      Thank you so much, Joy. We should have news soon…

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  2. Teagan Riordain Geneviene Avatar

    Jaye, I’m sorry to have missed this update — I had wondered.
    With all my “stuff” (PTSD issues) I know that inability to focus all too well.
    If my internet will stay connected long enough, I’ll search here for another update. I hope you got good news. Love and hugs to you both.

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    1. Books & Bonsai Avatar

      No news yet, but hopefully soon!

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  3. John W. Howell Avatar
    1. Books & Bonsai Avatar

      Thank you so much, John…

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  4. Jennie Avatar

    Thank you for the update, Jaye. Yes, I was thinking Anita was doing better. Let’s hope she is finally willing to have more tests and appointments done. It must be very hard for you. 💕

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    1. Books & Bonsai Avatar

      Harder for her though…

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      1. Jennie Avatar

        Of course. My best to both of you, Jaye.

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        1. Books & Bonsai Avatar

          Thanks, Jennie…

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          1. Jennie Avatar

            You’re welcome, Jaye.

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  5. joylennick Avatar

    So very sad to hear about Anita. Am so rooting for her and you all. Hope springs eternal. Hugs xx.

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    1. Books & Bonsai Avatar

      Thank you so much, Joy…

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  6. Penny Wilson Writes Avatar

    <3 Sending love and light your way.

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    1. Books & Bonsai Avatar

      Thank you so much, Penny…

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  7. Becky Ross Michael Avatar

    Such a challenging time; you’re both in my thoughts!

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    1. Books & Bonsai Avatar

      Thank you, Becky…

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  8. harmonykentonline Avatar

    So sorry that you are all having to deal with this. Sending love and hugs your way 💕🙂and healing energy

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  9. henhouselady Avatar

    I’m sorry to hear your sister is doing poorly. Sending prayers and best wishes your way.

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  10. barbtaub Avatar

    I’m so very sorry to hear about Anita’s poor health. Your family are in my thoughts and prayers this week. I hope there is good news from the upcoming tests and consultants.

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    1. Books & Bonsai Avatar

      We have our fingers crossed…

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  11. Alethea Kehas Avatar

    I’m sorry that things are so tough. Thinking of you and Anita❤️

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    1. Books & Bonsai Avatar

      So kind, Alethea…

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